Tuesday, March 28, 2017

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Photo - One of the hardest things to do as an advocate is tell a grieving parent or grandparent the truth.

As parents and grandparents of #TAKEN children we are so emotionally involved in our pain and loss that we sometimes lose sight of possibilities and the reality of where we now find ourselves.

It is scary to face the reality of moving forward without our #TAKEN child so we don't. Time ground to a halt the day our children were #TAKEN.

All I can say about that is that I understand. I have intimate knowledge of that exact space in time. Being suspended in a time warp of depression, hope, despair, and cruel reality. Isolated and yet present in a life that is now changed forever.

I must tell you the truth....even if it is painful. I'm not saying what I say to harm, manipulate or for personal gain.

I am deeply sorry that you are experiencing this horrible loss and I will listen and be down for you as you move forward. I am loyal and a fierce fighter for the #TAKEN and their families.

What I will not do is be verbally abused or be the recipient of your anger.

Yesterday I was attacked by two people in this cause. When a parent lashes out I can handle that, it comes with the territory. When it comes from someone who has been deceptive throughout their "case" and then recruits another "advocate" to attack me.....well I have to take a step back and assess what is really going on.

It's called reality. Sometimes reality is so painful that we create a new reality we can survive in. One that may not be entirely based in the truth.

To attack me because I refuse to "flow" when "facts" start changing to suit your current mood is just plain wrong.

I and countless other activists and activists do what we do because we believe we can implement change in a corrupt and morally corrupt family court process.

My fellow advocates and I are relentlessly attacked from "within the ranks" of our cause. Endlessly. I for one am tired of it.

I refuse to be attacked for something I do out of love. I blocked number 177 and 178 yesterday. 2 advocates that have clearly lost their fricking minds.

And we soldier on.

#TAKEN
#AmericasTakenChildren: One of the hardest things to do as an advocate is tell a grieving parent or grandparent the truth.

As parents and grandparents of #TAKEN children we are so emotionally involved in our pain and loss that we sometimes lose sight of possibilities and the reality of where we now find ourselves.

It is scary to face the reality of moving forward without our #TAKEN child so we don't. Time ground to a halt the day our children were #TAKEN.

All I can say about that is that I understand. I have intimate knowledge of that exact space in time. Being suspended in a time warp of depression, hope, despair, and cruel reality. Isolated and yet present in a life that is now changed forever.

I must tell you the truth....even if it is painful. I'm not saying what I say to harm, manipulate or for personal gain.

I am deeply sorry that you are experiencing this horrible loss and I will listen and be down for you as you move forward. I am loyal and a fierce fighter for the #TAKEN and their families.

What I will not do is be verbally abused or be the recipient of your anger.

Yesterday I was attacked by two people in this cause. When a parent lashes out I can handle that, it comes with the territory. When it comes from someone who has been deceptive throughout their "case" and then recruits another "advocate" to attack me.....well I have to take a step back and assess what is really going on.

It's called reality. Sometimes reality is so painful that we create a new reality we can survive in. One that may not be entirely based in the truth.

To attack me because I refuse to "flow" when "facts" start changing to suit your current mood is just plain wrong.

I and countless other activists and activists do what we do because we believe we can implement change in a corrupt and morally corrupt family court process.

My fellow advocates and I are relentlessly attacked from "within the ranks" of our cause. Endlessly. I for one am tired of it.

I refuse to be attacked for something I do out of love. I blocked number 177 and 178 yesterday. 2 advocates that have clearly lost their fricking minds.

And we soldier on.

#TAKEN
#AmericasTakenChildren

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